Suggestions for communicating with the dying person

Try to relate to the person’s being beneath the superficial aspects. When dying, people feel that they are no longer beautiful or useful. Our society places great value on beauty and usefulness, on performing well. We need to emphasise that life is much more than this.

Talk about the things they have accomplished and done well. Help them feel as constructive and happy as possible about their lives. Concentrate on their virtues and not their failings.

Reminisce about old times together. Create a loving atmosphere and then be a good listener and allow the person to talk.